The reason why this Information Session is being held is because so many Catholic parents have asked for help in talking to their kids about sex.
   They see their kids being inundated with advertising, music, and television programs that shout out the message, “There’s something wrong with you if you don’t have sex.”
   Parents want the best for their kids—good health, quality education, and, in most cases, the hope of meeting the right spouse and sharing a lifelong marriage with children of their own. Even if their children are not called to the vocation of marriage but to a religious vocation, parents want them to have a proper understanding of the awesome gift of human sexuality.
   You are the first and best educators of your children. Yes, it is hard to find the right words to talk with your kids about sex, but it is not impossible. Your kids need you. Be there for them. The information contained in resource material will help. But the most important part of the conversation is you. Don’t be afraid to start the conversation—and remember to keep it going.
    Christ has promised that “the truth shall set you free” (John 8:32).  Sex is part of God’s plan of spousal love for us. We shouldn’t be afraid of it. It is a gift to be treasured and shared. What a wonderful gift it will be for your children to know and experience sexual love as God intended.
   The DVD Series  The TOB for Teens addresses many questions. However, should a more difficult question come up that you cannot answer quickly, simply acknowledge that you get back to them and when.        Do you talk to your kids about sex?   
What do you say to them? How can parents speak with credibility to their kids about sex outside of marriage if they have done the very same thing they are telling their kids not to do?
What good does it do for parents to talk with their kids about sex? What does God have to do with sex? Why did God create us as male and female sexual beings? Why did God create sex? If God made us as sexual beings, what is wrong with having sex with someone we love, even if we aren’t married to each other? I had sex before marriage, so did most of my contemporaries. How can I expect my kids to behave any differently?
     Keep the lines of communication open, find the times and places that best work for talking with your teen. Having dinner together as a family is a proven communication tool.
     Set boundaries.  Make sure there are consequences when your boundaries are not respected. Curfew times, calling home when a child will be late, responsibility for school work and household chores, and rules about company at the house must be clearly understood and obeyed. When they are not, it is your responsibility as a parent to take the appropriate remedial action, firmly but fairly. Every child makes mistakes.   A parent’s job is to ensure he or she learns from those mistakes and does not repeat them. 
   Don’t allow one-on-one dating in the early teen years. The earlier girls begin dating, the higher the risk of engaging in premarital sex, having multiple sex partners, becoming pregnant and having an abortion. This is especially true when the boyfriend is older. 
   Keep alcohol off-limits to your teens. One in five sexually-active teens says they were using drugs or alcohol when they lost their virginity. (“SexSmarts” survey, conducted by the Kaiser Family Foundation and Seventeen magazine, 2003, www.kff.org. summary publication #3368 or  www.seventeen.com/sexsmarts.)
     Live your faith as a family. Teens in families who actively practice a religious faith are less likely to engage in premarital sex and other risky behaviors. (In its 2001 national survey, Faithful Nation, the National Campaign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy found that religious and moral values were the most important factors affecting a teen’s decision whether to have sex.
    Parents were the most influential people influencing their decisions. (See www.teenpregnancy.org.) For your information, below are government data and statistics regarding sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) or sexually-transmitted infections (STIs).  Note: STDs are not the focus of any of the chapters of this curriculum, but the topic is briefly touched on in some sections and will likely come up in discussion. This information may be useful to you:  More than sixty-eight million Americans are currently infected with a sexually transmitted disease. Each year, fifteen million new STD cases are reported. Approximately twenty-five percent of these new cases are found in teens, even though teens make up only ten percent of the population.
   Teens are more likely than adults to engage in riskier sexual behavior, including multiple sex partners. An estimated twenty million people in the U.S. are believed to be infected with the Human Papilloma Virus (HPV) with five and a half million people becoming newly infected each year. (HPV is an STD that causes genital warts. It also is responsible for more than ninety percent of all cases of cervical cancer.)
   Sexually-transmitted diseases can be transmitted from a woman to her unborn or newborn child. Some cannot be treated and may result in premature birth, eye disease, pneumonia, permanent neurological damage or even death. Many STDs do not have immediate symptoms. They remain undiagnosed but can still be transmitted to others.
The listing below should not be construed as an endorsement of the opinions of the author(s) of these works but are provided as source material, as needed:  1.  Scott Lehigh, “The Casual Emptiness of Teenage Sex,” Boston Globe, June 2, 2004 2. Jonathan D. Klein, MD, American Academy of Pediatrics, Teenage Pregnancy Policy Update, Adolescent Pregnancy: Current Trends and Issues, July 7, 2005 3.  Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, Tracking the Hidden Epidemics--Trends in STDs in the United States 2000, Accessed Sept. 20, 2001 4.  Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, Youth Risk Behavior Surveillance data, 2001. 5.  Laura Sessions Stepp, Washington Post, Study: Half of All Teens Have Had Oral Sex, September 16, 2005 6.  Deborah A. Wilburn, Family Circle, “It’s Not Really Sex,” October 9, 2004 (2003 Henry J. Kaiser Family Foundation survey of adolescents information) 7.  Eric J. Keroack, MD, FACOG and John R. Diggs Jr., MD, Medical Abstinence Council, Bonding Imperative, December 31, 2002 (Information on oxytocin and vasopressin) 8.  The National Catholic Bioethics Center on Health Care and Life Sciences, Ethics & Medics, And The Two Shall Become One, Biochemistry and Pair-Bonding, Dianne S. Vadney, MTS, April 2005, Vol. 30, No.4 9.  National Longitudinal Study of Adolescent Health published in the Journal of the American Medical Association September 10, 1997 v 278, n 10, p 823. 10.  Alan Guttmacher Institute, www.agi.org 11.  Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, HIV Prevention Strategic Plan Through 2005, September 2000. 12.  SexSmarts survey conducted by the Kaiser Family Foundation and Seventeen magazine, 2003, www. kff.org. summary publication #3368 or www.seventeen.com/sexsmarts. 13.  Dr. Meg Meeker in Epidemic: How Teen Sex Is Killing Our Kids, Washington DC, LifeLine Press, 2002.

CONFIRMATION & Grades 9-12***
Oct 4, 18 Candidates parish hall 6:45 – 8:15 PM
Oct 11, 25 Homework
Nov 1, 15, 29 parish hall 6:45 – 8:15 PM
Nov 8, 22 Homework
Dec 13, 27 parish hall 6:45 – 8:15 PM
DEC 6, 20 Homework
January 2021 sessions TBA
Retreat TBA 

What an incredible gift we have in the communion of saints. They’re are like us, our ancestors, our teachers, our friends, our siblings, real, truly human, sinners, repentant children of God.
The saints lived on this earth and experienced suffering, joy, pain, broken promises, peace, frustration, war, injury, heartbreak. They know our hearts. They know what it takes to be united with God here on this messy earth, & what it takes to live well for Him.
Why a saint for Confirmation?
We choose a Confirmation saint (like a Confirmation sponsor) not out of due diligence to the “rule,” but because we realize how unfortunate it would be to travel alone. We recognize how important it is to know your saint not only by name, but also by story. They have much to teach us about this journey.
Here is a starting point in your journey to decide whom your “Confirmation saint” will be. Pick someone who speaks to you somehow. Know their story. Get to know the power of their prayer. Ask for their intercession like you would ask for the prayers of your friends. Saying “yes” to a Confirmation saint is like saying “yes, you may always pray for my poor and weary soul.”
How fantastic is that!? I pray that in this process you do not just find a Confirmation saint, but an incredible friend. Happy picking!
Saints who may actually be superheroes. Their “superpowers” were that they were simply receptive to the power of God. Their stories are incredibly heroic.

• St. Mary, the Mother of God
• St. Peter
• Bl. Miguel Pro
• St. Maximilian Kolbe
• St. Joseph Cupertino
• St. George Martyr
• St. Joan of Arc
• St. Padre Pio
• St. Louis IX
• St. George
• St. Simeon Stylites
• St. Quiteria
• St. Denis
• St. Margaret of Antioch
• St. Patrick

Modern day saints were men and women who know what it means to live in the 20th century and still live a holy life. Both impressive, and beautiful stories, show us we have a lot to learn from these men and women.

• St. John Paul II
• St. Gianna
• Bl. Chiara Badano
• St. Josemaria Escriva
• St. Mother Teresa of Calcutta
• St. Teresa Benedicta of the Cross
• St. Katharine Drexel
• St. Maria Faustina Kowalska
• St. John XXIII
• St. Pauline of the Suffering Heart of Jesus
• St. Luigi Orione
• St. Andre Bessette
• St. Jaime Hilario Barbal
• St. Riccardo Pampuri
• St. Maria Bernard Butler
• St. Pius X
• St. Mary MacKillop

Saints who are Doctors of the Church: not Dr. House or Dr. Who, but rather physicians of the theology of the Church. Men and women who, through their own intense study and reflection, have given the Church great wisdom and insight.

• St. Ambrose
• St. Jerome
• St. Gregory the Great
• St. Athanasius
• St. John Chrysostom
• St. Basil the Great
• St. Gregory of Nazianzus
• St. Thomas Aquinas
• St. Bonaventure
• St. Anselm of Canterbury
• St. Isidore of Seville
• St. Peter Chrysologus
• St. Leo I, the Great

• St. Peter Damian
• St. Bernard of Clairvaux
• St. Hilary of Poitiers
• St. Alphonsus Liguori
• St. Cyril of Jerusalem
• St. John of Damascus
• St. Cyril of Alexandria
• St. Bede the Venerable
• St. Ephrem the Syrian
• St. Peter Canisius
• St. John of the Cross
• St. Robert Bellarmine
• St. Albert the Great
• St. Anthony of Padua
• St. Francis de Sales
• St. Lawrence of Brindisi
• St. Catherine of Siena
• St. Thérèse of Lisieux

Some saints have really cool conversion stories. God often works His wonders in small hidden ways; but sometimes His wonders are visible and quite loud. These saints experienced a profound conversion that greatly shaped the rest of their lives in extaordinary ways.

• St. Ignatius of Loyola
• St. Francis of Assisi
• St. Mary Magdalene
• St. Paul
• St. Augustine of Hippo (also a doctor of the Church)
• St. Genesius
• St. Vladimir of Kiev
• St. Moses the Black
• St. Longinus
• Bl. Imelda Lambertini

Saints with names your bishop might have trouble pronouncing … cause (don’t lie) that would be really funny. But also, their names aren’t the only rad thing about these saints; check out their stories!

• St. Kateri Tekakwitha
• St. John Chrysostom
• St. Alphonsa Muttathupadathu
• St. Benedicta Hyon Kyongnyon
• St. Ceolwulf of Northumbria
• St. Quadragesimus
• Bl. Volodymyr Pryjma
• St. Zygmunt Gorazdowski

Saints who reached sanctity before the age of 25, most were younger than you when they reached sainthood. What’s your excuse?

• Bl.José Sánchez del Rio
• St. Agnes
• St. Dominic Savio
• St. Tarcisius
• St. Maria Goretti
• Bl. Chiara Luce Badano
• St. Aquilina
• St. Gemma Galgani
• St. Lucy
• Bl. Pier Georgio Frassati
• St. Charles Lwanga
• St. Perpetua
• Bl. Francisco Marto
• Bl. Jacinta Marto
• St. Philomena
• St. Aloysius Gonzaga

Saints to invoke if you need prayers for a very specific intention. They’re more than their patronage, but sometimes we just need a saint in our lives who can pray for us in a particular way.

• For the universal Church and fathers – St. Joseph
• For those suffering nervous and mental afflictions – St. Dymphna
• For abuse victims – St. Monica
• For earaches – St. Polycarp
• For headaches – St. Teresa of Ávila (also a doctor of the Church)
• For toothaches – St. Apollonia
• For sore eyes – St. Clare of Assisi
• For those too sick to care for themselves – St. Roch
• For the poor – St. Lawrence
• For protection from fire – St. Agatha of Sicily
• For those who struggle with doubt – St. Thomas the Doubter
• For “hopeless causes” – St. Jude Thaddeus
• For athletes – St. Sebastian
• For musicians – St. Cecilia
• For artists – St. Catherine of Bologna
• For students – St. John Bosco and St. Benedict
• For speakers and philosophers – St. Justin Martyr
• For travelers – St. Christopher
• For friendships – St. John the Evangelist
• For Christian mothers – St. Anne
• For adopted children – St. Thomas More
• For farmers and rural communities – St. Isidore the Farmer
• For bakers – St. Nicholas
• For fisherman – St. Andrew
• For hunters – St. Hubert
• For physicians – St. Luke
• For altar servers – St. John Berchmans

By no means is this a complete list of the saints.
Look further to get to know your family of saints.